Ok so I'm already out but my interesting situationed boyfriend/fuckbuddy/friend with benefits is not. for a few reasons. one of which is confusing the both of us. now he's not gay, he's bi and this is where the trouble comes in.

now i know most bi's have their phases of which they prefer, pussy or penis. but what's interesting about him is he's not attracted to any other guy but me and he doesn't know why. nor do i, I'm NOT very attractive, as much as i hate it. now he does enjoy doing stuff with me but like he can't get off to gay porn like our other bi friend can. it's very confusing for him and me. we don't understand it.

perhaps there is a similar situation somewhere in this wide world and someone on here could help us figure this out

It's your personality, the person you are that has him interested in you sexually. Heres where labels get in the way of life. You say he's bi though the only guy he's into is you. OK, thats good. Thats just the way it is, it's him. I have known a few gay guys and leasbians too who were into very limited opposite sex connections. If you look
at the Kinsey scale it shows that people shade from one end of the scale to the other in terms of sexual interest.

You and your friend have connected because of some chemestry between the two of you. Thats a nice thing that you guys share...It's a compliment to both of you. Enjoy each other as you share yourselves. Steve

thank you very much, he thanks you too

yes after reading around the forums for a while particularly in the (DUH) Bisexual forum it helped him and me alot (really should have done that first)