Hi like inmy introduction , i am transgender and had the choise to go as the real me to school...
i sait to my doctor that i wouldn want to..
i collected all the positive and negative points together, i will put them here..

Positive:
-i can be myself
- i dont have to act as a boy
- i can wear clothes i want.
- i can do what i want with my hair

Negative:
- i will be bullyed
- The People on school know me like 4 years as a boy so it would be very strange for them to see me as a girl
- The latest reason can couse more bullying
- I will have to break of my shield (my male act)
- I will be as sensitive as cristal
- I wouldnd feel safe in the neighboorhood couse there are allot of schools with more islamic people and this isnt accepted in their book
- I once was knocked down 2 thimes by 3 people
- I will be bullyed and things will be trown at me at street
- As a boy i can defend myself.. as jolien, the real me, i cant.

couse these reasons i decided to do my LAST year as a boy... now is my question.. did i made the wright decision or am i a chicken couse i dont want to do it...
also, i'm already on androcur and next year in feb on hormones... i hope that i ddont have to change at Gym at the boys.. couse when i get breasts , i will be bullyed more again.

So should i hide my true me or should i be myself, showing them the truth, comfronting them with the truth.. ... what would you do if you red the positive and negative things... i dont want you to chose for me.. i just want to know if i made the right choice
please.. i need help i'm really confused
i dont know it anymore....

I think that you don't need to hide your personality.


When they see your breasts, you will be bullyed more.
You've said everyone knoys you as boy but can't you go to school as 'Jolien' without telling that you were J before?

Greetz
Tommekentom

I think it would probably be better to go to school, as you want to be and as you feel comfortable. If your confident how you feel then as a person you will exume that. Please dont be put off by narrow minded people. Just be happy as you are and if people dont accept you then that is their loss, they will be losing someone for that. It is no fault of yours. Your real friends will stick by you and care for you because of who you are.
But that is only my view, please do whatever you feel safest and most comfortable doing.
Good luck :)
Amy xx

Why can't you defend yourself as a woman? Being a woman does not make you weaker.

It's difficult, I know it is but if you are going to be a woman eventually you'll have to stand up for it. You simply have no other choice.

You have all my love and support (really, all of you) no matter what choice you make now... just remember that some day there won't be a choice left. And I think you should condition the people around you to the new you as early as possible. But if I were in your shoes... damn it must be a scary prospect...

school is so hard, that's a really difficult decision. I chose to bind my chest and wear my hair short, wear boy's clothing, but nobody sees me as a boy because I'm still all around girl-shaped. They all think I'm a lesbian, which is the furthest thing from the truth, because I'm gay. But how do you explain that to a bunch of already confused hormonally charged teenagers? Especially now, because I'm in a new country and am not that fluent in the language. Good luck to you whatever you choose, and remember to love yourself.

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